As a former executive myself, I’ve been there, where you are. I know the pressure, the expectations, the exhaustion. The lack of appreciation for everything you give, everything you carry, everything you do.
I poured out my lemonade so you don’t have to. I quit the rat race and became the healer I was always meant to be.
I began this journey at birth- kinky from day one. I started playing as a sub at the ripe old age of 19. But once I found peace with myself and stopped playing the game of ambition that wasn’t serving me, I found a new leader, a new voice, a new self: Mxtress Ephemeral knows their own power, and she knows how to wield it.
Ever the intellectual, I studied for this. I’m a graduate of Collette Pervette’s Mistress Class, and now serve as a Big Sister for new Dommes.
Shibari is my favourite thing, closely followed by other forms of bondage and a long list of playfully sadistic things. I’ve trained with many of the best riggers in Europe and Japan, and follow mostly Naka and Yukimura styles (very different things for different purposes!).
My sessions almost always involve bondage- rope or leather, you will be restrained.
From there your fantasies and mine will create the scene you are craving. I want to know what you want to feel, not only what you want to do.
I work in moments and glimpses, ephemeral time that exists only in this space, between us, now. What is here today will not last. What we craft is exceptional, deep, unique, unrepeatable. What we craft next time will be just as fleeting. But you’ll never forget.
And these are a few of my favorite things…
- Shibari
- Bondage
- Impact Play
- Breath Play
- Face Sitting
- Knife Play
- Fear Play
- Nipple Torture
- Psychological Play/ Mind fuck
- CBT
- Water Sports
- Findom
- Foot Worship
My hard limits:
- Tickling
- Scat
- Age play
- Adult diapers
For other desires, tell me what you have in mind. I usually like to try everything *twice.*
I’m pansexual and open to all genders.
